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Anyone can make a mistake and accidentally say something hurtful or triggering. 2: Must have willingness to learn no 'you're too sensitive'ĭemonstrate a willingness to learn. Do not try to start an argument for the sake of an argument. No GSRM-Phobic content (i.e: homophobia, bi/panphobia, transphobia, aphobia, as well as racism, serophobia, ableism, or sexism) If you are submitting a post that contains hateful remarks or triggering language, please precede your post's title with. All are welcome to participate who agree to follow the rules outlined below: Rules 1: Be respectful Here’s a better version made by to deal with the problems with my proposal/suggestion:Īnd are some more gay man/MLM flags (including PNC and SAM gays) made by other people that I’ve been collecting (gallery is incomplete though, please send any missing flags/sources to me).This subreddit is by and for people who are Gender, Sexual and Romantic Minorities (GSRM), including but by no means limited to LGBT (Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender) people, and respect for our diversity and experiences is paramount. I’m not quite sure what to do regarding damage control around the exclusionists that are using my flag, but I started by working with several gay men in a pride, and my personal server to come up with meanings for each stripe (based on flag) that explicitly include GNC, nonbinary, trans, ace/arospec, split-attraction, and pronoun nonconforming gay men (also made it prettier). I saw it around a few times but didn’t realize it took off like that and was being credited to a truscum, no less.
They never followed up on it so I posted it on Deviantart for opinions but didn’t get much interaction there. Since the anon that asked me about a gay man flag suggested one that was too similar to the butch lesbian flag. Was never meant to be a finalized design (especially since I’m nonbinary and bi), it was simply a suggestion Low/non-dysphoric trans people, and anyone else who may get excluded.īasically, any identity (that’s notcentered around harming people or animals) is amazing and valid. Lesbians (or anyone, really), GNC trans people, people who use the SAM, Neurogenders and neurorientations) pronoun noncomforming gays and I am fully supportive of allĪspec identities, “MOGAI” genders (including xenogenders, kingenders, I never want any of my flags being used to exclude part of the LGBTQAI+/MOGAI community. I am beyond pissed off at this, especially since I don’t remember anyone telling me it was stolen. Transphobes to exclude trans and nonbinary gay men. Also, it seems like it’s been co-opted by truscum and
Wording it in a way that made people think it was made by them (andĪlso “official”).
Mod Hermy of the Pride-Flags Deviantart here: I just found out during my hiatus from this blog that there’s been a lot of discourse surrounding this flag that I helped make.ĪPPARENTLY some truscum/transmed took this flag and reuploaded it (that got 8.2k notes vs the 9 notes my original post has),